Allowing children to show their guilt, show their grief, show their anger, takes the sting out of the situation.
Martha BeckThe power to bring me out of solitude - or to push me back into it - had never belonged to another person. It was mine and only mine.
Martha BeckAt times in my life, I have been utterly lonely. At other times, I've had disgusting infectious diseases. Try admitting these things in our culture.
Martha BeckIf you'd rather live surrounded by pristine objects than by the traces of happy memories, stay focused on tangible things. Otherwise, stop fixating on stuff you can touch and start caring about stuff that touches you.
Martha BeckIโll tell you what itโs time to do right now. Itโs time to set your schedule in order so that you donโt look back on the day of your death and wonder why you never really lived. Itโs time to ignore the opinions of those who think your life should be all about their cause, their rules, their agenda, and not your soulโs desire. Itโs time to stop flagellating and start dancing.
Martha Beck