Worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.

The secret to happiness, at Thanksgiving or any time, is to find pleasure in imperfection.

Be nice to your siblings. They are your link to the past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft

The Thanksgiving meal should not be treated as a grad school exam or an Olympic dive. Whatever you cook will be good enough - unless you make that Twinkie turkey stuffing we're suddenly hearing too much about.

Don't waste time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind.

Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. The older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.