Worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.

Here's a thing about the death of your mother, or anyone else you love: You can't anticipate how you'll feel afterward. People will tell you; a few may be close to right, none exactly right.

Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.

The secret to happiness, at Thanksgiving or any time, is to reframe obligation as opportunity. You don't have to spend Thanksgiving with your family. You get to.

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you'll have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either of them might run out.

Do not read beauty magazines. They only make you feel ugly.

Like many women my age, I am 28 years old.