I think there is another choice for women; it involves challenging Guyland and supporting each other.

Playing along with Guyland may be the only way an individual woman might believe she has a chance at a social life or a relationship. Sometimes it gets pretty crazy, like a sorority requiring that all the pledges sleep with the members of the "brother" fraternity.

We have the data to prove to men that gender equality is not a zero-sum game, but a win-win.

Feminism loves men enough to expect them to act more honorably and actually believes them capable of doing so.

White men in North America are the beneficiaries of the single biggest affirmative action program in world history. It's called world history.

So guys who are otherwise sensitive and thoughtful say and do ridiculously dumb things to impress other guys. It's an enormous performance, but guys know that if they fail, they'll be ridiculed as sissies mercilessly.

The privilege of privilege is that the terms of privilege are rendered invisible. It is a luxury not to have to think about race, or class, or gender. Only those marginalized by some category understand how powerful that category is when deployed against them.