Others follow patterns; we alone are unpredictable.
Men feel that women somehow drag them down, and women feel that way about men. It's possible that both are right.
To smoke or not to smoke: I can make of either a life-work.
Your best work always seems to have been done by someone else.
Women are the right age for just a few years; men, for most of their lives.
In youth we are plagued by desire; in later years, by the desire to feel desire.