If you hold a beautiful flower in your hand, you can write a whole book about it. However, you are still just you perceiving and experiencing it from your own point of view.
Miguel Angel RuizYou can have many great ideas in your head, but what makes the difference is the action. Without action upon an idea, there will be no manifestation, no results and no reward.
Miguel Angel RuizLife is very, very simple and easy to understand, but we complicate it with the beliefs and ideas that we create.
Miguel Angel RuizWe [people] love ourselves with conditions. We need opinions, we need approval, we create an image of ourselves that is not what we are. This how we lose our authenticity and create masks - how we become "domesticated."
Miguel Angel RuizEverything you think about yourself, everything you believe about yourself, is because you learned it.
Miguel Angel RuizEvery human is an artist. And this is the main art that we have: the creation of our story.
Miguel Angel RuizWhen you look at yourself in a mirror, do you like what you see, or do you judge your body and use the word to tell yourself lies? If you believe that you are not attractive enough, then you believe a lie, and you are using the word against yourself, against the truth.
Miguel Angel RuizIt is when we lose control that we repress the emotions, not when we are in control.
Miguel Angel RuizWhat I have most learned from my son is to respect him and to love him unconditionally. I believe that if parents respect their children and educate them with love and justice (and not just with words, but with their own behavior) the relationship with their children will be wonderful. Then parents will always be proud of their children, and children will always be proud of their parents. There will be peace in the family, and the home will be a sanctuary.
Miguel Angel RuizLet's stop believing that our differences make us superior or inferior to one another. Let's not be afraid that our different colors make us different people. Who cares? It's just a lie, and we don't have to believe all the lies and superstitions that control our lives.
Miguel Angel RuizI will no longer allow anyone to manipulate my mind and control my life in the name of love.
Miguel Angel RuizKnow that truth, forgiveness, and love can heal the world. Imagine if all of us could be truthful with ourselves, start forgiving everyone, and start loving everyone. We would no longer be selfish, gossiping would be over, and we would no longer judge one another. The world would become a place where all of us live in love.
Miguel Angel RuizWhen we believe in lies, we cannot see the truth, so we make thousands of assumptions and we take them as truth. One of the biggest assumptions we make is that the lies we believe are the truth!
Miguel Angel RuizIf someone is not treating you with love and respect, it is a gift if they walk away from you. If that person doesn't walk away, you will surely endure many years of suffering with him or her. Walking away may hurt for a while, but your heart will eventually heal. Then you can choose what you really want. You will find that you don't need to trust others as much as you need to trust yourself to make the right choices.
Miguel Angel RuizThe truth is the most important part of being impeccable with your word...Only the truth will set us free.
Miguel Angel RuizHumans punish themselves endlessly for not being what they believe they should be. They become very self-abusive, and they use other people to abuse themselves as well.
Miguel Angel RuizIt doesn't matter whether you believe in Christ, Moses, Allah, Brahma, Buddha, or any other being or master. Each one of us has our own beliefs, our own point of view. There are billions of different points of view, but it's the same force of life behind each one of us.
Miguel Angel RuizThe only way to change the world is to change the main character of our story - the one we believe that we are. If we change the main character, if we respect ourselves, then just like magic, all the secondary characters will change. We can only give what we have, and if we don't respect ourselves, how can we respect others?
Miguel Angel RuizBy practicing the Five Agreements, what you are really doing is respecting everything in creation. You are respecting your dream; you are respecting everybody else's dream. If you use these tools, your effort is really for everyone, because your joy, your happiness, your peace, and your heaven are contagious. When you are happy, the people around you are happy too, and it inspires them to change their own world.
Miguel Angel RuizDon't Make Assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
Miguel Angel RuizThe only reason you are happy is because you choose to be happy. Happiness is a choice, and so is suffering.
Miguel Angel Ruiz...find the courage to break those agreements that are fear-based and claim your personal power.
Miguel Angel RuizPersonal importance, or taking things personally, is the maximum expression of selfishness because we make the assumption that everything is about me.
Miguel Angel RuizFor many years, I used to pray as an act of power, but that was before I had 100% faith in myself.
Miguel Angel RuizWherever you go you will find people lying to you, and as your awareness grows, you will notice that you also lie to yourself. Do not expect people to tell you the truth because they also lie to themselves. You have to trust yourself and choose to believe or not to believe what someone says to you.
Miguel Angel RuizWhen you learn to love your physical body, every activity can become a ritual of gratitude where you fully express the joy to be alive!
Miguel Angel RuizThey were so much alike and they become best friends. It was a wonderful relationship. They respected each other, and they never put each other down. With every step they took together, they were happy. There was no envy or jealousy; there was no control, there was no possessiveness. Their relationship kept growing and growing. They loved to be together because when they were together, they had alot of fun. When they were not together, they missed each other.
Miguel Angel RuizNothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves. All people live in their own dream, in their own mind; they are in a completely different world from the one we live in. When we take something personally, we make the assumption that they know what is in our world, and we try to impose our world on their world.
Miguel Angel RuizWhenever we hear an opinion and believe it, we make an agreement, and it becomes part of our belief system.
Miguel Angel RuizPerhaps you're not finished with your story, and who knows if you'll ever finish it or not. Honestly, it's not that important.
Miguel Angel RuizHumans believe so many lies because we arenโt aware. We ignore the truth or we just donโt see the truth. When we are educated, we accumulate a lot of knowledge, and all that knowledge is just like a wall of fog that doesnโt allow us to perceive the truth, what really is.
Miguel Angel RuizWe never stop to consider that our beliefs are only a relative truth thatโs always going to be distorted by all the knowledge we have stored in our memory.
Miguel Angel RuizWhen we fulfill any need of the human body, it gives us pleasure. To breathe gives us much pleasure.
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