Pay attention to that which sees the mind.
Life cannot be against you, for you are Life itself. Life can only seem to go against the ego's projections, which are rarely the truth.
At the end of the day, you can have something in your head, something in your hand, or something in your heart. What are you choosing?
Who reminds you to breathe and to beat your heart? Something is there, taking care.
Giving energy to the mind, is like giving your neighbour a gun to shoot you with.
You are here. You are not the one who will go and come. Let what you're suffering from go and come, not you. You stay put.