Your intention for a book is never the same as the reception.

If there was anything I'd learned, it's that the man never chooses the woman. All he can do is give her an opportunity to choose him.

We get stuck in old thought and behavior patterns that may have been effective when we were twelve months or twelve years old, but now only serve to hold us back. And, while those around us may have no problem correcting our minor flaws, they let the big ones slide, because it would mean attacking who we are.

A lot of guys are very intimidated by an attractive woman, and they dehumanise her because our culture perceives beautiful women as commodities. But I think if you're able walk up to a person and get to know them, and you see their flaws and their impurities, and realise that they're like you, then you can humanise them again.

In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out.

One of the things I'd learned ... was how to take a compliment. Just say, "Thank you." It's the only response a confident person can make.

While I am impulsive in many areas of my life, marriage is not one of them.