Guarding knowledge is not a good way to understand. Understanding means to throw away your knowledge.
Nhat HanhTotal relaxation is the secret to enjoying sitting meditation. I sit with my spine upright, but not rigid; and I relax all the muscles in my body.
Nhat HanhBreathe in deeply to bring your mind home to your body. Then look at, or think of, the person triggering this emotion: With mindfulness, you can see that she is unhappy, that she is suffering. You can see her wrong perceptions. You can see that she is not beautiful when she says things that are unkind.
Nhat HanhAs a human being, you have the right to get angry; but as a practitioner, you do not have the right to stop practicing.
Nhat Hanh