When it comes to your inner critic, my advice is to not take advice from someone who doesn't like you. That's like returning to the perpetrator for healing after you've been abused.

Responsibility without power is a really bad deal.

When it comes to your inner critic, my advice is to not take advice from someone who doesn't like you. That's like returning to the perpetrator for healing after you've been abused.

This is one of the reasons we need to transition: people can't validate an identity they can't see.

If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no real communication.

If you live in a society that wishes you didn't exist, anything you do to make yourself happy disrupts its attempts to wipe you out, or at the very least, make you invisible.

By coming out to ourselves, we free up the energy we spent keeping a part of ourselves hidden.