When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually itโs your fixed identity thatโs crumbling. And as Chรถgyam Trungpa used to tell us, thatโs cause for celebration.
Pema ChodronThat nothing is static or fixed, that all is fleeting and impermanent, is the first mark of existence. It is the ordinary state of affairs. Everything is in process. Everything - every tree, every blade of grass, all the animals, insects, human beings, buildings, the animate and the inanimate - is always changing, moment to moment.
Pema ChodronWithout giving up hopeโthat thereโs somewhere better to be, that thereโs someone better to beโwe will never relax with where we are or who we are.
Pema ChodronDo I prefer to grow up and relate to life directly, or do I choose to live and die in fear?
Pema Chodron