The central question of a warrior's training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
Pema ChodronBeing fully present isnโt something that happens once and then you have achieved it; itโs being awake to the ebb and flow and movement and creation of life, being alive to the process of life itself.
Pema ChodronWhen people are hurting, what they really need is someone who is fully there for them - not someone who is condescending or officious. The only way for you to be there for them is by facing your fear or anger, whatever feelings cause you to shut down.
Pema Chodron