Be reckless in your intensities.

Clothes do not make the man; friends and engagement with life do.

Ageism is the racism of the gay world. We really believe that age-and all of our fears that it carries-will "rub off" on us, the way that racists once believed blackness would.

The god that you dispense with today, will come back as a demon tomorrow.

The most amazing thing about young men is how invisible they were to you when you were young. It is also the most poignant.

We think of death and loss as tragic twins, but in fact it is loss that hurts us.

Wanting someone so much that his very presence takes your breath away is one of the most thrilling happenings in life. Not getting him in no way diminishes this.