You cannot be who and what you are unless you have a lifestyle, both internally and externally, that is designed to support that definition of self.
You know, what we do know is that there is a high frequency of violence in the home of those who bully.
If what you're doing isn't working, change it.
A mother is only as happy as her saddest child.
People create their own experiences.
Every one of us have things that we believe about ourselves when nobody else is looking, nobody else is listening, nobody else is monitoring what we're doing. We believe things about ourselves.