My dad used to say, 'You wouldn't worry so much about what people thought about you if you knew how seldom they did.
Phil McGrawWillpower is a myth. The problem with trying to use willpower to achieve and sustain a behavioral change is that it is fueled by emotion. And as we all know, our emotions are, at best, fickle. They come and go. When your emotions start running down -- and they will -- even your best-laid plans will fall flat.
Phil McGraw