You don't need a pack of wild horses to learn how to make a sandwich.
If you want more, you have to require more from yourself.
Everybody should have the opportunity to do and be everything they can be.
You can't change what you don't acknowledge.
Instead of being ashamed of what you've been through, be proud of what you have overcome!
When you get married, your loyalty, first and foremost, is to your spouse, and to the family that you create together.