People create their own experiences.
Know your goal, make a plan and pull the trigger
You need to face the pain and the fear and walk through the Grief.
Life Is Managed; It Is Not Cured.
I do not believe, even remotely, that you have to have a partner in your life in order to be whole, in order to be complete, in order to be fulfilled. You just don't have to.
You know, what we do know is that there is a high frequency of violence in the home of those who bully.