There is nothing wrong with your marriage if you're dealing with bills and kids and the broken garbage disposal and in-laws and work demands. That's a normal marriage.

If you don't know what it is you want - and I mean specifically - then you won't even know when you have it.

The most you get is what you ask for.

You can't change what you don't acknowledge.

People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. You should be an open book, be transparent.

Every one of us have things that we believe about ourselves when nobody else is looking, nobody else is listening, nobody else is monitoring what we're doing. We believe things about ourselves.

Unless you know who you are, you will always be vulnerable to what people say.