I just am not good at math.
Relationships are negotiated and if you deal with ultimatums and authority all the time, then you're not going to get anywhere.
You do not HAVE to be angry just because you have the right to be angry.
You have to name it to claim it
Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.
Some people prefer the passenger role, because it imposes no real pressure to decide or stand accountable for their life results.