If your children see that you are seeking, they will seek-the finding part is up to God.
Polly Berrien BerendsIf we view our children as stupid, naughty, disturbed, or guilty of their misdeeds, they will learn to behold themselves as foolish, faulty, or shameful specimens of humanity. They will regard us as judges from whom they wish to hide, and they will interpret everything we say as further proof of their unworthiness. If we view them as innocent, or at least merely ignorant, they will gain understanding from their experiences, and they will continue to regard us as wise partners.
Polly Berrien BerendsThe secret is to learn to sit at the feet of your own life and be taught by it.
Polly Berrien Berends