The gift you offer another person is just your being.
If you want to see how enlightened you are, go spend a week with your family.
You are joy, wisdom, peace, compassion, and love
The heart surrenders everything to the moment. The mind judges and holds back.
These are planes of consciousness, and I think human beings exist on two planes of consciousness, the soul and the ego.
Learn to watch your drama unfold while at the same time knowing you are more than your drama.