There are respectful, considerate things that can be done in life that will be appreciated by the recipient, and only good things can result.
Randy PauschTradition, history and respect; that kind of qualities I admire, that I want to see preserved. Time is the only commodity that matters. Being successful doesn't make you manage your time well; managing your time well makes you successful. Goals, Priorities, and Planning. Why am I doing this? What is the goal? Why will I succeed? What happen if I chose not to do it? 'Good judgement comes from experience, experience comes from bad judgement'.
Randy PauschNo matter how bad things are, you can always make things worse. At the same time, it is often within your power to make them better
Randy Pausch