All my adult life I've felt drawn to ask long-married couples how they were able to stay together. All of them said the same thing: "We worked hard at it.

Find the best in everybody. Just keep waiting no matter how long it takes. No one is all evil. Everybody has a good side, just keep waiting, it will come out.

it make no sense to talk about rights without also talking about responsibilities

The key question to keep asking is, Are you spending your time on the right things? Because time is all you have.

Look for the best in everybody

I am going to keep having fun every day I have left, because there is no other way of life. You just have to decide whether you are a Tigger or an Eeyore.

No job should, be beneath us. And if you can't(or won't) sort mail, Where is the proof that you can do anything?