One thing that makes it possible to be an optimist is if you have a contingency plan for when all hell breaks loose.
Randy PauschWell, you can’t have just some of me, Jai,” I told her. “You appreciate the part of me that didn’t get angry because two ‘things’ we own got hurt. But the flip side of that is my belief that you don’t repair things if they still do what they’re supposed to do. The cars still work. Let’s just drive ’em.
Randy PauschThere's a lot of talk these days about giving children self-esteem. It's not something you can give; it's something they have to build.
Randy Pausch