until you got ice cream spilled on you, youโre not doing field work
It's not how hard you hit. It's how hard you get hit... and keep moving forward.
The best gift an educator can give is to get somebody to become self reflective.
I know you're smart. But everyone here is smart. Smart isn't enough. The kind of people I want on my research team are those who will help everyone feel happy to be here.
If she doesn't really love you, then it's over. And if she does love you, then love will win out.
Go out and do for others what somebody did for you.