There's a lot of talk these days about giving children self-esteem. It's not something you can give; it's something they have to build. Coach Graham worked in a no-coddling zone. Self-esteem? He knew there was really only one way to teach kids how to develop it: You give them something they can't do, they work hard until they find they can do it, and you just keep repeating the process.
Randy PauschAll my adult life I've felt drawn to ask long-married couples how they were able to stay together. All of them said the same thing: "We worked hard at it.
Randy PauschBeing successful doesn't make you manage your time well. Managing your time well makes you successful!
Randy PauschBe good at something. It makes you valuable. Have something to bring to the table, because that will make you more welcome.
Randy Pausch