There's a lot of talk these days about giving children self-esteem. It's not something you can give; it's something they have to build.
Randy PauschBe good at something. It makes you valuable. Have something to bring to the table, because that will make you more welcome.
Randy PauschThe person who failed often knows how to avoid future failures. The person who knows only success can be more oblivious to all the pitfalls.
Randy Pausch