When you do something young enough and you train for it, it just becomes a part of you.
if you offer wisdom from a third party, it seems less arrogant and more acceptable.
My colleague told me: "It took a long time, but I finally figured it out. When it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, it's really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do.
Often think of the worst-case scenario, the "Eaten By Wolves" factor.
Sometimes you can't pay it back, so you just have to pay it forward.
One key factor in the downward spiral in our educational system is that there is too much stroking and too little real feedback.