Never make a decesion until you have to". He'd also warn me that even if I was in a position of strenght, whether at work or in a relationship, I had to play fair. "Just because you're in the driver's seat, doesn't mean you have to run people over.
Randy PauschThere's a lot of talk these days about giving children self-esteem. It's not something you can give; it's something they have to build.
Randy Pausch