Believe nothing a man tells you and everything he shows you"....(Taken from a farewell video from a dying father to his infant daughter on dating)
I don't believe in the no-win scenario
It's not how hard you hit. It's how hard you get hit... and keep moving forward.
I'll take an earnest person over a hip person every day, because hip is short-term, earnest is long term.
When you do the right thing, good stuff has a way of happening.
Remember how quickly our field [computer science] changes. That's why you want to focus on learning things that don't change: how to work well with other people, how to carefully assess a client's real - as opposed to perceived - needs, and things like that.