You can't change people by removing something. You must create a void and then fill it.
We take the very best of what people do, synthesise it down, make it learnable and share it with each other - and that is what the real future of what NLP will be and its gonna stay that way!
Understanding why something happened does not help to reduce the problem.
Freedom is everything and Love is all the rest
Don't re-open old wounds in order to examine their origins. Leave them healed.
There are no failures - only feedback.