Audacity, always audacity - soundest principal of strategy.
They didn't want it good, they wanted it Wednesday.
It's better to copulate than not.
Learn to say No—and to be rude about it when necessary. Otherwise you will not have time to carry out your duty, or to do your own work, and certainly no time for love and happiness. The termites will nibble away your life and leave none of it for you.
Men are not potatoes!
If tempted by something that feels 'altruistic,' examine your motives and root out that self-deception. Then, if you still want to do it, wallow in it!