Don't handicap your children by making their lives easy.
I don't see how an article of clothing can be indecent. A person, yes.
Formal courtesy between husband and wife is even more important than it is between strangers.
The way to find justice is to deal fairly with other people and not worry about how they deal with you.
It's better to copulate than not.
Theology is never any help; it is searching in a dark cellar at midnight for a black cat that isn't there. Theologians can persuade themselves of anything.