Charisma is not just saying hello. It's dropping what you're doing to say hello.
When there is hell to pay, it is usually cheaper to pay it than to finance an endless purgatory.
Act always from a sense of common humanity, and let God judge if it be charity.
Always when judging Who people are, Remember to footnote The words "So far.
I don't lie and cheat, but I don't always avoid actions that would be lying and cheating if someone else did them.
Eventually you realize that not all opposing viewpoints come from people who oppose you.