There's a difference between a mystery and a question. Questions demand answers, but a mystery demands something more valuable-explanation.
Robert CialdiniThe factor that frequently determines whether people are going to make a particular choice is not the factor that counsels wisely or the one that leads to the greatest economic benefit. It's the one that's top of the consciousness in the moment.
Robert CialdiniWhat new psychology suggests, it's the factor that is top of consciousness at the moment before you make that economic decision that will win the day.
Robert CialdiniA well-known principle of human behavior says that when we ask someone to do us a favor we will be more successful if we provide a reason. People simply like to have reasons for what they do.
Robert CialdiniPre-suasion is the practice of getting people sympathetic to your message before they experience it. It's the ability to cause people to have something at the top of their consciousness that makes them receptive to your message that's yet to come.
Robert CialdiniThere is a group of people who know very well where the weapons of automatic influence lie and employ them regularly and expertly to get what they want. They go from social encounter to social encounter requesting others to comply with their wishes; their frequency of success is dazzling.
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