Everyone has the same life purpose, which is the quest of happiness for oneself and for others.

Wisdom is tolerance of cognitive dissonance.

I am daily making myself what I am.

Practice giving things away, not just things you don't care about, but things you do like. Remember, it is not the size of a gift, it is its quality and the amount of mental attachment you overcome that count. So don't bankrupt yourself on a momentary positive impulse, only to regret it later. Give thought to giving. Give small things, carefully, and observe the mental processes going along with the act of releasing the little thing you liked.

You should never be ashamed of the suffering you've been through.

However, because of your interconnectedness with all things, other beings still have a problem, and when you realize that you have no absolute self apart from things, you realize that essentially, you are all the other beings.

That love, in the sense of wishing their happiness, will cause your actions to be effective in relation to that person.