By being remarkable, being genuine, you can be worth connecting with. And you don't have to have it figured out perfectly the first time - you can adjust.
People who can spread ideas regardless of what those ideas are, win.
Be with the ones you love (and the ones that love you.) Ignore everyone else.
Competent people are the most resistant to change
Too often, we don't give people the opportunity to fill in the blanks.
The minute there's a map, there is no art. Paint by numbers is not art. Paint by numbers is a mechanical activity.