Put aside your need for a step-by-step manual and instead realize that analogies are your best friend.
Go do something interesting. Ask if you need help.
Every activity worth doing has a learning curve.
The opposite of coherent is interesting.
If you could do tomorrow over again, would you?
Attention is a bit like real estate, in that they're not making any more of it. Unlike real estate, though, it keeps going up in value.