The way to work with a bully is to take the ball and go home. First time, every time. When there's no ball, there's no game. Bullies hate that. So they'll either behave so they can play with you or they'll go bully someone else.
Seth GodinYou have to pay the price to be in the right place at the right time often enough that people tend to see you as the regular kind.
Seth Godin