I think that to be a competitive athlete, you have to be goal-oriented.
I'm coming up on 30. There are other things that I want to pursue outside of just performing.
Doing your best is more important than being the best.
Go into the sport because you have fun doing it, not because of 'what ifs' and dreams of gold medals. That way, no matter what happens, you win.
There's never going to be a system that is fair to everyone
Charles Barkley was a big teddy bear.