I wish I could just go tell all the young women I work with, all these fabulous women, 'Believe in yourself and negotiate for yourself. Own your own success.' I wish I could tell that to my daughter. But it's not that simple.

I have a five year-old son and a three year-old daughter. I want my son to have a choice to contribute fully in the workforce or at home. And I want my daughter to have the choice to not just succeed, but to be liked for her accomplishments.

We know when we use the full talents of our population we're more productive. And we know that when people really feel like they can have flexible lives, they're better employees.

Pages on Facebook are allowed to be anonymous. That is really important. People start revolutions; we need anonymity.

Aiming for perfection causes frustration at best and paralysis at worst.

It is the ultimate luxury to combine passion and contribution. It's also a very clear path to happiness.

It's easy to dislike the few senior women out there. What if women were half the positions in power? It would be harder to dislike all of them.