The most important thing - and I've said it a hundred times and I'll say it a hundred times - if you marry a man, marry the right one.

But I really believe that when you give people authentic identity, which is what Facebook does, and you can be your real self and connect with real people online, things will change.

After my husband, Dave, died, I called my friend Adam, a psychologist who studies how people find meaning in our lives, and I asked him what, if anything, I could do to help myself and my kids get through this. We started talking about resilience, then reading about it, then talking to other people who had gotten through grief and other huge challenges. In time, those conversations and that research helped me heal.

And anyway, who wears a tiara on a jungle gym?

The best way to make room for both life and career is to make choices deliberately-to set limits and stick to them.

So there's no such thing as work-life balance. There's work, and there's life, and there's no balance.

Without fear, women can pursue professional success and personal fulfillment-and freely choose one, or the other, or both.