The energy you'll expend focusing on someone else's life is better spent working on your own. Just be your own idol.

A #GIRLBOSS is in charge of her own life. She gets what she wants because she works for it.

Many people are too lazy to go out, can't afford to, or are too swamped. If you can manage your workload and get out for lunch, more power to you. You're at the wrong employer if you find yourself penalized for something so human.

The energy you'll expend focusing on someone else's life is better spent working on your own. Just be your own idol.

You don't get what you don't ask for

Dive headfirst into things without being too attached to the results

In my teens I saw the world in only black and white. Now I know that most things exist in a certain gray area. Though it took a while to get here, I now call this gray area home. I once believed that participating in a capitalist economy would be the death of me, but now realize that agonizing over the political implications of every move I make isn’t exactly living.