Fundamentally, we are a product of choice, not nature (genes) or nurture (upbringing, environment).

If you don't know yourself, if you don't control yourself, if you don't have mastery over yourself, it's very hard to like yourself, except in some short-term, psych-up, superficial way.

At the core, there is one simple, overarching reason why so many people remain unsatisfied in their work and why most organisations fail to draw out the greatest talent, ingenuity, and creativity of their people and never become truly great, enduring organisations. It stems from an incomplete paradigm of who we are - our fundamental view of human nature. The fundamental reality is, human beings are not things needing to be motivated and controlled; they are four-dimensional - body, mind, heart, and spirit.

If we overcome the pull and "get up and get at it," we will have won a victory. We have kept our own resolve. We can then move to other things, for by small means great things are accomplished. Thus, even this one small step is also in another sense a giant leap.

A personal mission statement becomes the DNA for every other decision we make.

Some people achieve the top of the ladder and only then realise it was standing against the wrong wall.

The need to leave a legacy is our spiritual need to have a sense of meaning, purpose, personal congruence, and contribution.