I don't think something necessarily has to be mean or cynical to represent 'edgy.' I think 'edgy' can mean a lot of different things.

Anything nice that's said about me is diametrically opposed to who I am.

People generally have sex fairly young, and probably younger than they should be having it.

Some people just derive great joy from making other people laugh. And I do, but I don't feel like I need to do it 24 hours a day.

That's an interesting way to put it: an expectation of who you should be. More often than not, it's described as an expectation of who you are.

Goalies almost never get credit for winning a game, but they always get blamed for losing a game.

In the United States, there is a restaurant called The Outback Steakhouse, and I could survive in there for several weeks at least, sustaining myself on bloomin' onions and, I'm sure, their legitimate and very Australian cuisine. In the real Outback? I give myself about 14 minutes.