Last words of wisdom.If your parents are screewed up, don't turn into them. Use them as an example of what not to be- be yourself instead. you can overcome your fears, you can change, you can make your life into what you've always wanted it to be. Maybr not tomorrow but soon. So hang in.
Susane ColasantiFollowing your heart means allowing the possibility of finding true love to be stronger than the fear of rejection.
Susane ColasantiTell me about it. Itโs so hard to deal with a single parent. They take out all their anxiety on you. Itโs like, sheโs so angry all the time. And I didnโt even do anything!โ โThatโs so wrong.โ โYeah.โ โWhereโs your dad?โ โI donโt know. My mom had me when she was still in high school, so . . .โ โYou donโt see him at all?โ โNo, and I donโt want to. I have no interest in maintaining a relationship with someone who didnโt love me enough to stick around.
Susane ColasantiDo you want to be with Dave for the rest of your life?โ Then he rips off a piece of paper and picks up the smallest charcoal stick from my set. He writes something. He passes it over to me. It says: Time will tell. โAnd while youโre waiting,โ he says, โdonโt settle for anything less than what you really want.
Susane ColasantiYou canโt ever know the real anybody unless youโre friends with them. And sometimes not even then.
Susane ColasantiItโs like once everyone decides who you are, youโre locked into their version of you and thatโs it.
Susane ColasantiPhysical attraction that strong is addictive. And knowing that kind of magic isnโt just a fantasy makes me want to find it again. But what about being with someone who makes me a better person? What about sharing my life with someone who adores me as much as I adore him, whom I can always count on, who helps me find my way when Iโm lost?
Susane Colasanti