People have to find their rhythm. Some people have need for more contact and time together and some people need more space.
Tara BrachI speak a lot about what I call "the trance of unworthiness" which is really epidemic in our culture, this sense of "I'm not enough," or "something's wrong with me." Most of us have some level of it because our culture has all these standards (handed down through our families) of what it means to be okay.
Tara Brach