For some people, every door opens, and they meet just who they need to meet when they need to meet them, all the conditions come together. For other people, there is one problem after the other, even though they are so sincere. And from a Tibetan point of view, this is because of a lack of merit.
Tenzin PalmoThe answer lies within ourselves. If we can't find peace and happiness there, it's not going to come from the outside.
Tenzin PalmoI think it would help if, when people are first ordained, they underwent a period of strict training, maybe for several years. During this time they would learn basic Buddhist philosophy in a monastic community where all the teaching and training was directed toward living a perfect monastic life and wasn't channeled out to fit into the lay life - which is what usually happens in Dharma centers where the teachings are directed toward how to live the Dharma in your everyday life.
Tenzin PalmoThe Buddha himself said, "I still use conceptual thinking, but I'm not formed by it." And that's the Buddha.
Tenzin Palmo