Conflict isn't negative, it just is.

Conflict isn't negative, it just is.

It is hard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because we are not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creating a new "pearl" as we are in being right.

Instead of seeing the rug being pulled from under us, we can learn to dance on the shifting carpet.

Change does not take time - it takes commitment.

Being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view to a viewing point - a higher, more expansive place, from which you can see both sides.

The number one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain their self-esteem. Resolving conflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment and appreciation of differences.