When you spend your days doing what fulfills you, you are attractive.
Grant people a lifetime of forgiveness before you even meet them.
Remind people who they are instead of just complimenting them on what they've done.
Clarity affords focus.
To be efficient means getting the job done in a smart, resourceful and timely way. To be effective means getting the right job done well, efficiently or not.
Confidence comes from seeing so many sides, angles, views, and tangents. Because when you do select an approach or direction, you are doing so with better/ more complete information.