Just because you are embarrassed to admit that you're still living the consequences of bad decisions made 5, 10, 20 years ago shouldn't stop you from making good decisions now. If you let pride stop you, you will hate life 5, 10, and 20 years from now for the same reasons.
Tim FerrissLanguage learning deserves special mention. It is, bar none, the best thing you can do to hone clear thinking.
Tim Ferriss