When you listen and read one thinker, you become a cloneโฆ two thinkers, you become confusedโฆ ten thinkers, youโll begin developing your own voiceโฆ two or three hundred thinkers, you become wise and develop your voice.
Timothy KellerYou can only afford to be generous if you actually have some money in the bank to give. In the same way, if your only source of love and meaning is your spouse, then anytime he or she fails you, it will not just cause grief but a psychological cataclysm. If, however, you know something of the work of the Spirit in your life, you have enough love "in the bank" to be generous to your spouse even when you are not getting much affection or kindness at the moment.
Timothy KellerIt seems almost oxymoronic to believe that this new idealism has led to a new pessimism about marriage, but that is exactly what has happened. In generations past there was far less talk about "compatibility" and finding the ideal soul mate. Today we are looking for someone who accepts us as we are and fulfills our desires, and this creates an unrealistic set of expectations that frustrates both the searchers and the searched for.
Timothy KellerLegalism is looking to something besides Jesus Christ in order to be acceptable and clean before God.
Timothy KellerChristianity offers not merely a consolation but a restoration - not just of the life we had but of the life we always wanted but never achieved. And because the joy will be even greater for all that evil, this means the final defeat of all those forces that would have destroyed the purpose of God in creation, namely, to live with his people in glory and delight forever.
Timothy KellerTo discover the real you, look at what you spend time thinking about when no one is looking.
Timothy KellerThe Christian gospel is that I am so flawed that Jesus had to die for me, yet I am so loved and valued that Jesus was glad to die for me.
Timothy KellerThe early church was strikingly different from the culture around it in this way - the pagan society was stingy with its money and promiscuous with its body. A pagan gave nobody their money and practically gave everybody their body. And the Christians came along and gave practically nobody their body and they gave practically everybody their money.
Timothy KellerPaul reminds us that in the Gospel we are both brought lower and raised higher than we can imagine.
Timothy KellerFaith in the gospel restructures our motivations, our self-understanding, our identity, and our view of the world. Behavioral compliance to rules without heart-change will be superficial and fleetingโฆ We can only change permanently as we take the gospel more deeply into our understanding and into our hearts. We must feed on the gospel, as it were, digesting it and making it part of ourselves. That is how we grow.
Timothy KellerPrayer is never just an emergency flare or desperate anxious gamble. God's attention is not based on our performance but parental love.
Timothy KellerOnly with time do we really learn who the other person is and come to love the person for him- or herself and not just for the feelings and experiences they give us.
Timothy KellerMost people in the world believe that if there is a God, you relate to God by being good. Most religions are based on that principle, though there are a million different variations on it...But they all have the same logic: If I perform, if I obey, Iโm accepted. The gospel of Jesus is not only different from that but diametrically opposed to it: Iโm fully accepted in Jesus Christ, and therefore I obey.
Timothy KellerIf you have to run away from something that used to be an idol, you're actually still enslaved by it. It's still controlling you.
Timothy KellerThe gospel is this: We are more sinful and flawed in ourselves than we ever dared believe, yet at the very same time we are more loved and accepted in Jesus Christ than we ever dared hope.
Timothy KellerThe resurrection of the body means that we do not merely receive a consolation for the life we have lost but a restoration of it. We not only get the bodies and lives we had but the bodies and lives we wished for but had never before received.
Timothy KellerAn idol is something that we look to for things that only God can give. Idolatry functions widely inside religious communities when doctrinal truth is elevated to the position of a false god. This occurs when people rely on the rightness of their doctrine for their standing with God rather than on God himself and his grace. It is a subtly but deadly mistake. The sign that you have slipped into this form of self-justification is that you become what the book of Proverbs calls a 'scoffer'.
Timothy KellerThe ministry of mercy, then, is the best advertising a church can have. It convinces a community that this church provides people with actions for their problems, not only talk. It shows the community that this church is compassionate.
Timothy KellerEveryone will be forgotten, nothing we do will make any difference, and all good endeavors, even the best, will come to naught. Unless there is God. If the God of the Bible exists, and there is a True Reality beneath and behind this one, and this life is not the only life, then every good endeavor, even the simplest ones, pursued in response to God's calling, can matter forever.
Timothy KellerWe must have a strong inner life of fellowship and intimacy with Jesus if we are going to have a strong outer life of ministry
Timothy KellerChrist's resurrection not only gives you hope for the future; it gives you hope to handle your scars right now.
Timothy KellerPaul sees all kinds of sins in himself and all kinds of accomplishments too, but he refuses to connect them with his identity.
Timothy KellerMost people want Jesus as a consultant rather than a King, and He does not come that way.
Timothy KellerMost apologetic books are really written for Christians, even the ones that purport to be written for non-believers.
Timothy KellerThe gospel is not about choosing to follow advice; it's about being called to follow a King.
Timothy KellerOnly when our greatest love is God, a love that we cannot lose even in death, can we face all things with peace. Grief was not to be eliminated but seasoned and buoyed up with love and hope.
Timothy KellerJesus asks for far more than you ever thought, but offers more than you ever dreamed.
Timothy KellerChristmas is an invitation by God to say: Look what I've done to come near to you. Now draw near to me...I want to be a friend.
Timothy KellerThe only love that wonโt disappoint you is one that canโt change, that canโt be lost, that is not based on the ups and downs of life or of how well you live. It is something that not even death can take away from you. Godโs love is the only thing like that.
Timothy KellerIf your god never disagrees with you, you might just be worshipping an idealized version of yourself.
Timothy KellerOnly if God can say things that make you struggle will you know that you have met a real God and not a figment of your imagination.
Timothy KellerContextualization is not giving people what they want. It is giving God's answers (which they probably do not want) to the questions they are asking and in forms they can comprehend.
Timothy KellerWe would say homosexuality is not the original design for sexuality. Therefore, itโs not good for human flourishing. We want people to do things that are good for human flourishing. But thatโs not what sends you to heaven or Hell.
Timothy KellerLiving is giving....If you spend your money on yourself, you are just surviving. But if you want your life to count, if you want to really live - give.
Timothy KellerGod sees us as we are, loves us as we are, and accepts us as we are. But by His grace, He does not leave us as we are.
Timothy KellerLike a baby learning language, we learn how to communicate with God by listening to His words first.
Timothy KellerIf the evolutionary mechanism of natural selection depends on death, destruction, and violence of the strong against the weak, then these things are perfectly natural. On what basis, then, does the atheist judge the natural world to be horribly wrong, unfair, and unjust?
Timothy Keller...Singles, too, must see the penultimate status of marriage. If single Christians don't develop a deeply fulfilling love relationship with Jesus, they will put too much pressure on their DREAM of marriage, and that will create pathology in their lives as well.
Timothy KellerThe issue on which everything hangs is not whether you like His teaching but if He โชrose from the dead.
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